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How Fears Can Cost You Clients, Money, Success, and Happiness

No matter where you are in your business, there’s most likely a thing or two that you SHOULD be doing to get clients, but you aren’t.

Maybe it's…

Marketing your services on social media or through word of mouth
Making cold calls and sending out emails to potential clients
Calling past clients to see if they want to work with you again
Asking for the sale at the end of your free session
Or anything else that’s on your personal list of to-do’s

If so…

It’s most likely FEAR that keeps you from taking action.

This fear can show up as a tightness in your body, or a pit in your stomach when you think about doing certain things to grow your business.

And this feeling – this fear – can keep you paralyzed and stuck, instead of getting the things you want out of business and your life.

How To Overcome Your Biggest Fears

In this article, I’ll show you how to overcome your biggest fears so you can get back on the fast track to success – but first let me ask you this:

Do you think your lack of action is hurting your chances at future success? Is it affecting your confidence?

If so, you’re not alone. Most coaches – even the very successful ones, deal with this at one point or another, myself included.

I used to have a lot of fears standing in my way. Things like…

Fears of not being a good enough coach
Fears that my clients were going to leave at any minute
Making cold calls
And being afraid of potential clients saying ‘no’ to hiring me

…but not anymore.

That’s because I’ve developed a step by step way to clear out any fear called the Peace Process, and now I’ll show you how to start using it!

The Peace Process

It’s called the Peace Process (because it eliminates fear and brings you to peace) and you can use it to get started on the path of creating all that you desire.

The first important thing you should do is acknowledge that everything we are afraid of are fears of feelings.

Either physical feelings (like getting hit on the head, falling off of a building, etc.) or emotional feelings (like shame, rejection, embarrassment, etc.).

Everything you’re afraid of happening is actually your fear of feeling what will arise for you when that thing happens.

For example, if you’re afraid of calling an old client to see if they want to start working with you again, you may actually be afraid of how you would feel if the client says ‘no’.

In other words, you’re afraid of rejection!

Or you could be afraid you’d be bothering them which might make you feel ashamed.

When we feel an emotion that is uncomfortable you’re more likely to push it away, either by distracting yourself (with food, television, etc.) or by suppressing your feelings.

Instead of resisting our feelings, we must embrace them. Then we can clear them and be free of them.

This is the secret to how and why the Peace Process is so effective.

Putting It Into Action…

Here’s how you can overcome fear so you can get back into action with growing your business:

Step 1: Think about an action you know you need to do, but you just aren’t doing it. Imagine doing it and notice where in your body the feeling is the strongest.

Step 2: Give that feeling all of the space, energy, and love that it needs to live, breathe, and grow…yes, grow! What we resist persists… especially uncomfortable feelings. Let go of the resistance.

Step 3: Keep your attention on the most intense part of the feeling and focus on the ‘bull’s-eye’ inside the feeling where it’s even more intense. Do this until the feeling has had enough of you and leaves you.

Important Note: 

This process will likely resolve your fear completely.

Sometimes there are layers… you may have a feeling in your heart or chest and then after it clears there could be another one in your solar plexus (or somewhere else).

Continue until you think about the activity and it feels totally peaceful.

Now you have the power to break through anything that is standing in your way, and your chances of being widely successful in all areas of your life will increase dramatically.

So please give this process a go!

It can take some practice or you might get it on the first try. Either way, don’t let anything stand between you and all the people who need your coaching.